The ability to seduce and abduct in the art of amorous conquest is inherent to characters who make their lives a theft of wills. Recently, a prisoner of justice coldly threatened his wife to shoot her and ...
The ability to seduce and abduct in the art of amorous conquest is inherent to characters who make their lives a theft of wills.
Recently, a prisoner of justice coldly threatened his wife to shoot her and also with the due courtesy of asking if she preferred the shot in the head or in the thorax, quite a gentlemanly detail.
The question always arises as to how it was possible for a lady of high intellectual capacity, discriminatory power and accredited professionalism to fall into the networks of this profiled animal whose alias suits him perfectly.
Things are simpler than they might seem, and it is that the art of the floral game, the etiquette, the childish crying of the boy who has lost his affections, abandoned by his family and thrown into sloppiness and bad life because of another woman or the physical or sentimental death of the same, is the "de facto" set that adorns these individuals.
The enormous capacity to falsify, deceive, usurp, commit crimes, skirt the law and appear on the scene as poor Leoncio end up captivating women who, emotionally, have gone through bridges of sadness and previous loneliness. They can be overcome by pity for the sniveling slob.
Curiously, these ladies are usually intelligent, challenging businesswomen, liberal professionals, great entrepreneurs, who usually have a valuable and substantial patrimony acquired with great effort and dedication. Quite a prey, and suddenly "the primitive".
Loneliness is another key factor, that of the pillow. The children leave home, a grandchild appears from time to time, the feeling that being still young and elegantly beautiful their life is coming to an end, makes them rebel against what they consider their misfortune and they get into worse trouble; they are trapped in the song of the partridge and enter the cage, remaining at the mercy of the deceiver.
When they realize the situation, married, because the faker is not interested in being in a couple, and often neglecting the cold and previous choice of the type of conjugal society, "what will they say", the accomplice society that knowingly keeps silent about the villainy to which a woman is subjected in this way, the escape is often towards inescapability.
Subclinical anxious-depressive symptoms begin to manifest. You can negotiate and even be told to move out. They subtly ask for help, in broken sentences and fail to make their voice audible, it seems that everything is going very well. Both families are happy, and he above all, acts as the great godfather. The bubonic plague is nothing compared to the stench of the guts of these characters, mostly self-proclaimed virile and hymen-breakers.
When only a short time passes and she realizes the deception, her intelligence battered and discredited before her own, they usually do not have the courage to kick the expert deceiver in his noble parts; some surrender, others flee forward, and if they have support, they negotiate. Sometimes they negotiate with their honor and dignity, others with their patrimony and seventy times a year with their own life.
In rare cases she faces the situation, tries to make a pact but the fox is wounded and does not tolerate the prey fleeing. Here is related the case, one of thousands, which is the basic behavioral to understand that second parts were never good. And of the third ones I do not even tell you.
There are those who denounce but there is always the threat of the abuser, with or without a bracelet he will try to get the loot. She cannot be more intelligent or contribute more to the coexisting society, because that would be the last straw; the essence of machismo and the ram-like stench that it gives off begins to be expressed in disagreements that are charitably forgiven, including the threatening attitude of the finger or the gaze over the glasses that they usually handle with skill.
Human behavior is complex, multifactorial, but madness is madness and evil is evil. The deceiver is astute but by throwing rope ends up trapped in his own knot.
There are thousands of women sentenced by the deceivers and there are those who having the duty to act according to law, practicing law, give legal traffic to such deceiving litigants. Just as there are republican kings, there is everything in this mundane planet. Every saint has his octave, not to say that every pig has his St. Martin's day.
I had no need to associate with windbags but we have all bought more than one garment that we do not need. Have compassion for the suffering human being and do not try to blame the victim, a very typical thing of this society. She must have done something, right?
Dedicated to women who have been deceived by the songs of partridges
Carlos Juma is a neurologist and professor of Biological Foundations of Behavior
