"It's the second time I've gone for a walk in that area and, when I sit on some benches in that place and right next to a small playground, I find myself being stared at by three men who were separated from each other (one in each corner of that kind of little square). Innocent of me, the first time I went, it occurred to me to go to the bathroom to relieve myself when I was literally chased by a guy who, without saying a word, stuck to me while another who was sitting next to the door stood up and smiled at me.
I immediately, realizing what was happening, turned around and left there quickly, after feeling harassed and even indignant about what was happening to me. My surprise was such that the following week I decided to go again "not without my wife" to find out if this was an isolated event or if, on the contrary, those people were still there.
To my surprise, I found other guys looking at each other again, one in each corner, waiting for something (I imagine for some clueless person who happens to enter the bathroom to accompany them in their physical relief).
Surely what they are doing is not illegal, even having a little park right next to it. Surely they have the right to see each other and relate as they please and surely women in many places will feel even more harassed than I felt, but it must be that I am very old-fashioned and not used to it, so I want to leave it there."